What NOT To Do If You’ve Hurt Your Wife
March 29, 2021 | Keeping It Clean
Adam blew it. That was bad enough, but after he blew it, he double-blew it with the wrong response to blowing it.He hid. He…
Before You Look At That Stuff Again …
September 1, 2020 | Doctrinal Matters
It’s a familiar scene. You want it, it’s there.You’re lonely, or stressed, or bored. You’ve got some spare time; you’ve got access.You also know…
10 Tips for Maintaining Sexual Integrity
July 31, 2020 | Uncategorized
About 20 years ago, I put together these “tips” in answer to the question of what steps a man should take to “keep it…
EvangelicaLGBTQ
February 12, 2020 | Doctrinal Matters
When a liberal church goes pro-gay, we yawn. When an Assemblies of God congregation announces it’s “gay affirming”, we wake up. Hopefully.Last Sunday Rev.…
Shaving Samson: Why Superbowl Outrage Isn’t Enough
February 3, 2020 | Doctrinal Matters
I’d say yesterday’s Superbowl ads and halftime show signaled a new low for American sports, but others have already said it.Franklin Graham said it…
When Someone You Love is Gay
January 7, 2020 | Doctrinal Matters
Approval Accepted; Acceptance DeniedWhen someone says “Mom and Dad, I’m gay”, are Mom and Dad automatically forced into a choice between approval or rejection,…
Where We’ve Been And Where We’re Going in 2020
December 28, 2019 | Announcements
“I’ve often said that no one understands the subject of sexuality better than my friend Joe Dallas. I’m not merely speaking of Joe’s formidable…
Your Wife Still Has You in the Dog House? Try This
March 26, 2019 | Uncategorized
It’s lonely for the guy in the dog house. He knows that his own sin put him there, and he feels helpless, unsure what…
Kicking and Screaming Towards Purity
February 19, 2019 | Uncategorized
“And he did that which was right in the sight of the LORD, but not with a willing heart.”-II Chronicles 25:2 The description above –…
The (Vanishing) Sexual Edge
January 30, 2019 | Uncategorized
“For God is not the author of confusion…”I Corinthians 14:33 God loves order and loathes confusion. That should give us pause when we see…
What NOT to Tell Yourself When You’re Craving
November 26, 2018 | Uncategorized
There are many men who have much less than me, Day by day, they make their wayAnd they find more in life than I can…
Busted, with Benefits
August 16, 2018 | Keeping It Clean
The recent headlines about Willow Creek and the Catholic priests in Pennsylvania are terrible reminders of what happens when men in leadership give themselves…
In Other Words: LGBTQ Language and the Church
August 4, 2018 | Uncategorized
Mixed Orientation Marriage and Spiritual Friendship: Valid Terms or Distortions?Part 2 of a 3-Part Series In the multitude of words there wanteth not sin:…
Still in the Dog House? Here’s Something Worth Trying
June 28, 2018 | Marriage Matters
When a married man strays, whether through porn or a third party, it’s like he drove the family car into a wall. With the…