Twinkie Salad
January 31, 2014 | A Cuppa Joe
It’s become chic to say Christians should be known more by what we’re for than what we’re against. Usually the phrase is employed to criticize…
Bad Medicine
January 23, 2014 | Relational Matters
The pain in my tooth was murderous. I was reduced to a whimpering, whining child, and if you’ve ever had serious dental trouble you…
My Glorious Thorn
December 20, 2013 | Relational Matters
He told me, coming home, that he hoped the people saw him in the church, because he was a cripple, and it might be…
The Angry Wife
November 20, 2013 | Marriage Matters
It seems nothing works with her. A kind word is met with a rebuff. Touching and lovemaking are out of the question. Any little…
The Default Principle
November 18, 2013 | Keeping It Clean
When you discover behavior that delivers pleasurable impact, your brain will crave a repetition of the impact. Accept this fact and prepare for it,…
Rebuilding Shattered Trust
October 15, 2013 | Marriage Matters
When Nehemiah set out to rebuild Jerusalem, he began by taking a close look at the damage done to her walls. (Nehemiah 2: 11-16)…
So Many Purity Plans – Who’s Right?
October 7, 2013 | Keeping It Clean
If you’re a Christian guy who’s struggled with porn or other sexual sins, and you’ve checked Amazon.com to see what sort of help…
Dust As I Am
October 1, 2013 | Keeping It Clean
“For he knoweth our frame; he remembereth that we are dust.” -Psalms 103:14 If a man falls into sexual sin he can repent…
Slaughtering Hope
August 20, 2013 | Marriage Matters
Slaughtering Hope One should rather die than be betrayed. There is no deceit in death. It delivers exactly what it promised. Betrayal, though —…
Pocket Points
August 12, 2013 | Keeping It Clean
Pocket Points (Abridged from my book Five Steps to Breaking Free from Porn) I find myself “pocketing” certain points – small sayings, or…
A Cuppa Joe – Random Ramblings from a Fellow Struggler
July 26, 2013 | A Cuppa Joe
Every Friday we’ll take a break from topical posts and will post some random personal thoughts. Lessons from Fruit Flies I’ve often thought that when…
If You Can, Then You Will
July 8, 2013 | Keeping It Clean
Every Monday we’ll post something to do with maintaining sexual purity. Hope it helps. — The following is an excerpt from my new book “Five…
Uncivil in Seattle
July 5, 2013 | A Cuppa Joe
I had the pleasure of being on Focus on the Family’s “Boundless” podcast yesterday, discussing the effects of porn, and my new book on…
ANNOUNCEMENT: New Book Release on Monday, “Five Steps to Breaking Free from Porn”
June 28, 2013 | A Cuppa Joe
I’m excited to announce the July 1 release of my latest book “Five Steps to Breaking Free from Porn” through Harvest House publishers, and…