Blind Spots
February 21, 2014 | A Cuppa Joe
And would some Power the small gift give us To see ourselves as others see us! It would from many a blunder free us,…
The Dark Plunge
February 20, 2014 | Relational Matters
“— a thorn in the flesh was given to me, a messenger of Satan sent to buffet me, lest I be exalted above measure.” –…
My Glorious Thorn
December 20, 2013 | Relational Matters
He told me, coming home, that he hoped the people saw him in the church, because he was a cripple, and it might be…
The Default Principle
November 18, 2013 | Keeping It Clean
When you discover behavior that delivers pleasurable impact, your brain will crave a repetition of the impact. Accept this fact and prepare for it,…
Bless the Jerk
November 7, 2013 | Relational Matters
There’s no way to navigate a life without getting bumped, bruised or outright wounded by people. No one’s exempt, and generally, the closer we…
How Do I Know He’s Getting Better? Five Things to Look for When a Man Says He’s Repentant
October 29, 2013 | Marriage Matters
Wives often ask my wife and I how they can really know their husband, who’s committed some form of sexual sin, is getting better.…
Darts Among Friends
October 24, 2013 | Relational Matters
Above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked. – Ephesians 5:16…
My Worst Side
October 21, 2013 | Keeping It Clean
We usually know what we can do, but temptation shows us who we are. -Thomas a Kempis If I were to describe everything…
Pocket Points
August 12, 2013 | Keeping It Clean
Pocket Points (Abridged from my book Five Steps to Breaking Free from Porn) I find myself “pocketing” certain points – small sayings, or…
Precious Thoughts
July 10, 2013 | Doctrinal Matters
Every Wednesday we’ll post something to do with doctrine and recovery. Hope it helps. — Precious Thoughts How precious also are thy thoughts unto me,…
The Intimate Enemy
July 9, 2013 | Marriage Matters
Every Tuesday we’ll be posting an article about restoring and strengthening marriages that have been damaged by sexual sin. Hope it’s helpful. — The Intimate…
If You Can, Then You Will
July 8, 2013 | Keeping It Clean
Every Monday we’ll post something to do with maintaining sexual purity. Hope it helps. — The following is an excerpt from my new book “Five…
Not Interested. Thanks. Goodbye.
June 17, 2013 | Keeping It Clean
Every Monday we’ll post something about maintaining sexual integrity. Hope it helps. — “Not Interested. Thanks. Goodbye.” It took me about four decades to perfect…
Thy Will Be Done … but are You Open to Suggestions?
June 12, 2013 | Doctrinal Matters
Every Wednesday we’ll post something to do with doctrine and recovery. — “Thy Will Be Done” (but are You open to suggestions?) Trusting that God…