Eternally Secure, Perpetually Striving

Every Wednesday we’ll post something having to do with doctrine and purity. Hope it helps.

Eternally Secure, Perpetually Striving

One of Christianity’s longest running arguments has to do with the believer’s security. If one has been born again, can he ever lose his salvation? If so, how? And, once lost, can it ever be retrieved?

I’m not entirely settled on the issue myself. Some of my favorite scriptures (and indeed, ones I draw no small comfort from) bolster the “once saved, always saved” position. “No man is able to pluck them out of My Father’s hands” (John 10:29) for example, and “There is now therefore no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus.”(Romans 8:1) Ditto for “He is able to save to the uttermost” (Hebrews 7:25) and “ye who are kept by the power of God.” (1 Peter 1:5) Indeed, if we’re saved, as Paul told Titus, “not by works of righteousness which we have done but according to His mercy” (Titus 3:5) then my works, righteous or not, don’t figure into the salvation equation. But I’m also sobered to consider Christ’s warning that if a man does not abide in him he is “cast forth as a withered branch and thrown into the fire” (John 15:6) and Paul’s description of some as “having damnation because they’ve cast off their faith.” (1 Timothy 5:12) Save it; I’ve heard all the pro and con interpretations of these verses, so I know exactly how both Calvinist and Arminianist would explain them. All of which leaves me preferring the idea of eternal security (who wouldn’t?) while not being entirely convinced of it.

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He’s Just Not That Into Him

Tired.

He’s Just Not That Into Him

A book and subsequent film titled “He’s Just Not That Into You” looked at the phenomena of single women who find it hard to accept the fact that when a man doesn’t return phone calls, breaks promises to get in touch, or keeps making excuses for not getting together, it doesn’t mean he had a car accident. Nor was he kidnapped, drugged, or overcome with the flu. It simply means he’s not that into you. Brutal fact, but there it is, and it’s better faced than avoided.

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Well, Then, Act Like One!

father and son

A common parental technique, which I’m no fan of, shames a kid by contrasting what he’s doing to who he is. I understand the frustration churning behind statements like “Are you a boy? Then act like one!” or “Are you 12 instead of 3? Then act like it!” because when a child’s behavior doesn’t match his age, aggravation’s inevitable. Still, there’s a difference between demeaning and appealing. “Grow up!” demeans, since the very phrase has a sneering quality. “You’re better than that, so I want you to act like it” has the same essential message minus the insult. And an appeal to maturity based on a recognition of the child’s age and potential is, to my thinking, better parenting.

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Bless The Jerk

Bash or Bless?

Bless the Jerk – There’s no way to navigate a life without getting bumped, bruised or outright wounded by people. No one’s exempt, …

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Bad Form

smash

Bad Form – “Having a form of godliness but denying the power thereof; from such turn away.” – II Timothy 3:5
My wife and I have followed the NBC series Smash since its first episode, generally enjoying it; sometimes hitting the pause button when the occasional tryst or needlessly suggestive moment is featured. It centers on the evolution of a Broadway musical based on Marilyn Monroe’s final years, and provides a dynamite cast, terrific musical numbers, and the fun of watching a play sprout from inception to opening night, all from the backstage, insider’s viewpoint of the producer, songwriters, director and performers. It’s pretty good tv. But last Monday it crossed a line …

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